The Absolutes of Subjective Advice
Since I took my first philosophy course as a freshman in college, I have been a fan. In the many years since, I still enjoy studying philosophy and can say that doing so has done much more for me than being able to answer a few more questions while watching Jeopardy than I normally would have otherwise.
That said, let me share with you some of what I have learned watching home repair/fix-it shows on cable. I am not a handy man but I do enjoy the work of those who are. From these shows, and I admit I speak from an understanding that I know very little about interior design, I could not help but notice how much of what is suggested as a solution seems to be subjective.
A few examples:
- We want to add this color to the baseboards because it will anchor the theme throughout
- If we place this bowl on the table, it will serve as a focal point helping to distract the buyer from the fact that the ceiling is not that high
- If you are going for Zen, then nothing says Zen like river rock and textures
Now, these claims may in fact be absolutes. I could query 1,000 designers and they may all be in total agreement and if so, fine. The point I am making is that as you are trying to build new business, be careful of what may be subjective advice passing for an absolute.
A few examples:
- Cold calling is for the Stone Age, no one cold calls any more
- If your business card does not make someone do a back flip, get rid of it and get one that does
- If you are not subscribing to a lead service, you are dead in the water
In my, admittedly, subjective opinion, there are elements of truth in each of those sayings but one should not accept or discard any as something ‘either/or’ (Either true or false). I would ‘translate’ the three bits of advice as follows:
- There may be better options for you than cold calling
- A great looking business card is better than a dull or amateurish looking one
- Subscribing to a lead service could give you an advantage
If you are still reading, allow me to jump back to the ‘classroom’ briefly to what is known as the ‘fallacy of appeal’. This is a common form of fallacy in that, rather than present an objective argument that stands on its own merit, presents some form of appeal, prompting the listener to accept a point without further questioning.
As you grow your business remember that there are lots of free advice out there, mine included. I encourage you not to fully discount or embrace what you read but rather see how it can apply to your business and take what truth from each ‘pearl of wisdom’ that could help.
Sometimes, the value may be nothing more than hearing or reading something that you almost immediately reject as ‘crazy’ but, after some thought, may prompt you to, as Apple Inc. says, ‘Think different’.
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Bobby Darnell is the founder and Principal of Construction Market Consultants, Inc. an Atlanta based management consulting group specializing in business development, sales, marketing and CRM...as well as executive placement for the Architectural, Engineering and Construction industry.
Bobby can be reached at bobbydarnell [at] cmconl.com











